{"id":132596,"date":"2020-07-02T19:02:45","date_gmt":"2020-07-02T17:02:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thecuriousbrain.com\/?p=132596"},"modified":"2020-07-02T19:02:48","modified_gmt":"2020-07-02T17:02:48","slug":"how-romantic-attachment-works","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thecuriousbrain.com\/?p=132596","title":{"rendered":"How Romantic Attachment Works!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"922\" height=\"519\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/b9UUnorP-8U?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Some of the reason why we choose such unsuitable partners in love is that we aren&#8217;t trying to find someone who ideally suits us, we&#8217;re looking out for someone who feels familiar. We recreate in adulthood patterns of attachment that we know from childhood &#8211; and thereby often perpetuate cycles of suffering and dissatisfaction.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Some of the reason why we choose such unsuitable partners in love is that we aren&#8217;t trying to find someone who ideally suits us, we&#8217;re looking out for someone who feels familiar. 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