{"id":134978,"date":"2020-12-09T19:49:36","date_gmt":"2020-12-09T17:49:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thecuriousbrain.com\/?p=134978"},"modified":"2020-12-09T19:49:40","modified_gmt":"2020-12-09T17:49:40","slug":"the-secret-of-successful-relationships-rupture-and-repair","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thecuriousbrain.com\/?p=134978","title":{"rendered":"The Secret of Successful Relationships: Rupture and Repair"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"922\" height=\"519\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/rgQvqi6aYD8?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>No relationship is ever stable; each goes through a regular cycle of \u2018rupture\u2019 and \u2018repair\u2019. A healthy relationship is not one in which ruptures never occur, but one where both parties are willing and able to repair them.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>No relationship is ever stable; each goes through a regular cycle of \u2018rupture\u2019 and \u2018repair\u2019. 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