{"id":137155,"date":"2021-03-25T02:34:43","date_gmt":"2021-03-25T00:34:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thecuriousbrain.com\/?p=137155"},"modified":"2021-03-25T02:34:46","modified_gmt":"2021-03-25T00:34:46","slug":"how-unloving-parents-generate-self-hating-children","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thecuriousbrain.com\/?p=137155","title":{"rendered":"How Unloving Parents Generate Self-Hating Children"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"922\" height=\"519\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/ujhn1JdOSB4?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Our sense of self-worth is dependent upon the love we were shown as children. 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