{"id":138375,"date":"2021-05-26T18:56:18","date_gmt":"2021-05-26T16:56:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thecuriousbrain.com\/?p=138375"},"modified":"2021-05-26T18:56:22","modified_gmt":"2021-05-26T16:56:22","slug":"hysteria-when-your-partner-is-too-calm","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thecuriousbrain.com\/?p=138375","title":{"rendered":"Hysteria When Your Partner Is Too Calm"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<span class=\"embed-youtube\" style=\"text-align:center; display: block;\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"youtube-player\" width=\"922\" height=\"519\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/7JFFRPaEg04?version=3&#038;rel=1&#038;showsearch=0&#038;showinfo=1&#038;iv_load_policy=1&#038;fs=1&#038;hl=en-US&#038;autohide=2&#038;wmode=transparent\" allowfullscreen=\"true\" style=\"border:0;\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts allow-same-origin allow-popups allow-presentation allow-popups-to-escape-sandbox\"><\/iframe><\/span>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Within couples, a dynamic often emerges during arguments where one person becomes very \u2018emotional\u2019 (much to the annoyance of their \u2018reasonable\u2019 partner). Yet the wisest response is not frustration, but compassion: to try to understand the source of their emotional distress.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Within couples, a dynamic often emerges during arguments where one person becomes very \u2018emotional\u2019 (much to the annoyance of their \u2018reasonable\u2019 partner). 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